RedSi35 wrote:burjennio wrote:Dalglish wrote:Football is NOT the pretty sentimental fluffy product that SKY would have you believe. No matter how many pictures of fans in painted faces walking to the ground arm in arm they show you, it's not a fair representation of the game. Whilst the game can be beuatiful I have to tell you as a supporter most of the time it's downright ugly and distasteful.
At Bolton recently I was stood next to a couple of the most unsavoury individuals you would like to meet. Their body language and verbals were beyond passionate support. Maybe I noticed more because my 7 year old son was attending his first away game and of course things were not going well on the pitch but nowhere else would we deem it acceptable to swear and remonstrate like they did.
Footballs sick and its not just the players who need help !
This ^^^
My 7 year old boy plays kids footie on a weekend. Only kick about 7 a side stuff.
Butme....................some of the parents who take their kids to play are truly in the gutter of behaviour and decency.
Shouting and swearing from the touchlines at their kids and other kids over a little kick about, ive seen full scale punch ups, mums and dads heckling 6 & 7 year old kids................and the kids learn from it.
Society is
Hi Si,
My 7 year old also plays in a local league and is in his second season.
I played up to a decent level years ago so I know and have seen some of the unsavoury aspects within the grassroots game.
I'm happy to report that due to the ethos within my son's club I haven't experienced too much aggro yet but know its just a matter of time.
However, if the game at the top which he and millions like him watches every week is awash with, spats, bad tackles, diving, goading, swearing, unsportsmanlike behaviour and cheating then its just a matter of time before it infects the whole of the game.
At Bolton the other week the guy at the side of me shouted for someone to pickup Reo Coker and referred to him as a W** !

Sadly, many fans mistake agression as passion and see nothing wrong saying and doing stuff at the game that they wouldn't dream of doing anywhere else.
To say I'm disillusioned is an understatement !