Liverpool FC Forum

[Lando_Griffin]

My thoughts are still with you and the kids Karen.

And my offer still stands - if you ever need anyone to talk to - you know where I am.

Happy New Year - may it bring you some good luck.

[peterc1992]

i never knew phil at all,may he rest in peace,i joined the forum a couple of days after he died and i read through so many threads and eventually founf out someone has died and i was shocked,i lived my normal live and joined this forum at a time when all of you were grieving,hope u have a good 2007 karen and may he r.i.p

[mrsDrummerphil]

My thoughts are still with you and the kids Karen.

And my offer still stands - if you ever need anyone to talk to - you know where I am.

Happy New Year - may it bring you some good luck.

Thanks Lando was thinking about sending you a simlar message. Don't think my broken heart can be mended but you have youth, looks and talent. Life is too short to be unhappy.

Take Care Friend

MrsDrummerPhil

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[Lando_Griffin]

My thoughts are still with you and the kids Karen.

And my offer still stands - if you ever need anyone to talk to - you know where I am.

Happy New Year - may it bring you some good luck.

Thanks Lando was thinking about sending you a simlar message. Don't think my broken heart can be mended but you have youth, looks and talent. Life is too short to be unhappy.

Take Care Friend

MrsDrummerPhil

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I think you're mistaking me for someone else!

Thanks Karen. I appreciate your kind words.

But your heart WILL mend. You WILL be happy again. You will always love and miss Phil - that is natural.

But you will find solice once more.

[crazyhorse]

I still think of Phil most days, especially when I visit here. Lando is right, it may seem that you will never feel happy again but one day you will wake up and feel just a little less sad; after that every day will get a tiny bit easier. You may never feel the same again, but one day life will be worthwhile again.

[Lando_Griffin]

Thinking about you all.

Bet Chelsea Forever was happy with the weekend's result, eh Phil!!!!!


Hope you're getting through it ok, Karen. Take care.

[Igor Zidane]

Still thinking of yer Phil mate. Best wishes Karen and family.

[Ciggy]

Funnily enough I was thinking about Phil and Karen tonight for some reason dont know why, not that I have forgotten about yous, I was just thinking about Karen tonight.
Its weird that this topic has been bumped at the same time.
Phil will be cheering us on from heaven now, wont you sweetheart  its going great wish you could be here, .........

Karen hope you and the kids are ok you know where we all are if you ever need us ok luv xxxx

[Igor Zidane]

Wierd That Lynds i was thinking the same. He defo still watchin over us all.

[Judge]

still in disbelief

[mrsDrummerphil]

Hello My 'Special' Friends,

Things not been good, this is not living it is just exsistence. I know what I need to do but finding it so difficult. Just how long can one feel sorry for oneself. Can't bring myself to go to Douglas MacMillan for counselling, just know I won't be able to talk and the same applies to interviews, who in their right mind is going to employ a jibbering reck! Nothing could ever prepare anyone for this consuming feeling of grief, I know the pain will never go away and I have to learn to live with it but I now understand how bereaved partners also give up on the will to live. I've had my heart broken before and had given up on finding my soulmate and then there was Phil, we planned to retire to West Kirby, had the bench chosen and everything, growing old together was our dream, but dreams don't come true. Just don't see the point in chasing dreams anymore. Really sorry to be a misery and I know this is a football forum and no place for me but when I read some threads and when whatching LFC I can hear Phil's voice replying to you all and the shouts from upstairs still echo his rants and raves during games. LFC was such a great part of his life and this forum also and this will be shown on my love's memorial stone and unless you think it inappropriate I will try to post the proofs once the very caring and helpfull Alan as finalised them, he is taking great pride in what will be a fitting tribute to our beloved Phil.

Have cried while typing this but feel comfort from knowing you will embrace my words and share my grief and sure your replies whether "get a grip woman" or soul seeking will help us all continue to exsist.

Thank you always.

MrsDrummerPhil
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[jonnymac1979]

I know this is a football forum and no place for me

You're always welcome on here Karen.

[metalhead]

All I can tell you Karen is to keep yourself together, and stay strong! You exist for a reason, everyone does, just go out there and try your best in the world, You have kids that loves you and that is important, and hopefully in the future they will protect you and and help you.

Its very hard to lose a loved one, it is! I know the feeling, but I'm sure phil is proud of you.

[Lando_Griffin]

Hello My 'Special' Friends,

Things not been good, this is not living it is just exsistence. I know what I need to do but finding it so difficult. Just how long can one feel sorry for oneself. Can't bring myself to go to Douglas MacMillan for counselling, just know I won't be able to talk and the same applies to interviews, who in their right mind is going to employ a jibbering reck! Nothing could ever prepare anyone for this consuming feeling of grief, I know the pain will never go away and I have to learn to live with it but I now understand how bereaved partners also give up on the will to live. I've had my heart broken before and had given up on finding my soulmate and then there was Phil, we planned to retire to West Kirby, had the bench chosen and everything, growing old together was our dream, but dreams don't come true. Just don't see the point in chasing dreams anymore. Really sorry to be a misery and I know this is a football forum and no place for me but when I read some threads and when whatching LFC I can hear Phil's voice replying to you all and the shouts from upstairs still echo his rants and raves during games. LFC was such a great part of his life and this forum also and this will be shown on my love's memorial stone and unless you think it inappropriate I will try to post the proofs once the very caring and helpfull Alan as finalised them, he is taking great pride in what will be a fitting tribute to our beloved Phil.

Have cried while typing this but feel comfort from knowing you will embrace my words and share my grief and sure your replies whether "get a grip woman" or soul seeking will help us all continue to exsist.

Thank you always.

MrsDrummerPhil
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Hi Karen - it's good to hear from you again.

I can't pretend I know what you're feeling, but I can tell you that you have a good set of people around you, and with time, the pain will become bearable.

I know it's a cliche, but it is true. You will never forget Phil - none of us will. But you will gradually feel your pain easing.

You will see a brighter day sweetheart.

P.S. - You are always welcome on here, and I speak for everyone on the forum when I say that.

[matrix]

so many lovely caring people on here...

  karen i pray to god  that you will come through this, you will have to be strong for the kids, but more importantly you have to do it for yourself, but karen im not going to kid you its not going to be easy, phil will be watching over you, that's for sure...  karen you can pm me anytime if you need someone to talk to...  everyone on here is thinking about you...     ronnie.